The psychology behind human nature

The substance of our nature is ingrained deep within us.

Many of us see but don't understand .

It's simply better to be relaxed than worked up.

There is no point in anger. Anger destroys

relationships. If you need to stand up for

yourself than do it, but a wise man will not

use force or negative references. Every time

you get angry something happens, a shift shall

we say. It is not you anymore , but your animal

within you. 

Truthfully I have come to understand

that we humans are half evil beings with the

illusion that we are good. The point for that

being is because we are selfish deep inside us.

When you help someone you do it because

it gives you pleasure and it makes you feel

better, when you hurt someone you feel joy

of superiority.So we realize that good does

not exist . Good is an illusion due to our

selfish nature. Sorry to say but I have come

to realize it's true. For example when High

School is over everyone goes to whatever

college they must attend, leaving their loved

ones behind. Why?

Because we are again, selfish. Writing this

makes me mad , because i realize the truth

within this blog. When a mother loves her

child, and punishes her child, is she being a

good mother, or is she stopping the child from

expanding his horizons because she thinks

her way is best due to her age?

If i asked you to play football because i know what's best for you, should you follow my advice? why would you? is there 

something selfish behind it? Me telling you what to

 do makes me superior because I know what's

 best for you, therefore : selfish again.

If i asked you to find me a job ,  are you the superior? Sure but in the end , who got what he asked for?

If you bail your enemy out of jail , are you a good person? You are selfish , because if you weren't scared of what he could 

have done to you , you wouldn't do it.

So as we keep reading this blog we realize more and more of our evil ways and how we are always taught to be good is an illusion . (Illusion : fake appearance)

Nonetheless we can keep thinking we are saints!